i was waiting with my friend at the platform for the mrt to arrive.
and i was asking him why he was playing around, balancing himself on the pop up features on the floor.
he said he did that because he was bored.
and of course, a normal person's reaction will tell him to talk to me right!
apparently, his rebute was "what u expect me to talk to you about? you dont club; ask you to go for late night supper, you dont go; you need to accompany your mum."
seriously he got me thinking about that conversation.
i mean just because
- i am not a frequent clubber
- dislike going for suppers too often (especially when it requires some form of effort and energy when it involves people that are not that close)
- need to accompany my mum when EVERY single one of my family apart from me is overseas
and that makes me a boring person?
correct me if i am wrong, i may like to do nothing or laze around at times, but that does not qualify me as someone that boring to even talk to. and truth to speak, i do think at times i may be able to hold an interesting conversation than he does.
to be honest, i am really quite pissed/hurt by what he says. especially when we have been working together for the past 2 years.
i do understand that guys are insensitive at times, but to be this nonchalant especially when jinzhen and i always remind him to be more careful with his words, i cant ignore it.